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Anonymous: would you be friends with someone who cheated on you, but says he still loves u and wants to not stop talking as friends.. he cheated on me the last 3 months of our relationship. idk what to do, he still tryna talk to me, as awkward as it is, im not sure if i should let him. he was my bestfriend before he was my bf but after all this im not sure what i want. if im stupid to believe he loves me some type of way still.. or hes playin w/ me. im thinkin back 3mnths ago, he tol me.. (con)

you said continued but we didnn’t get anything hun :/ we’ll wait then reply

-kamaya

8 months ago with 0 notes

Anonymous: jasmine, i didnt get to talk to him like i wanted. i tried to tell him my problems but instead i said, 'i guess we dnt talk long enough for u to kno' & he said, just not lately. girl... its been like this for months. and he just went to sleep & this morning said good morning but when i replied, nothing. i know he's not THAT busy & if he was he wouldnt tell me things been the same with him. idk what to do anymore, i feel like he just dont want to talk to me like i do. is it time to break up & how

omg i’m soooooooo late omg omg omg :/

but no it isn’t not until you guys have that conversation you were supposed to have with each other you know? if you don’t get everything out in the open to maybe get it fixed then you can’t decide to break it up, it’s just not fair to him. that’s how break up to make up relationships begin because of unsolved issues or “unfinished business” as i like to say within the relationship… if the conversation doesn’t go as planned then tell him that you think you guys are growing apart and that MAYBE its time you two break up for good… say maybe so he doesn’t take it as an official break up and also so he can be able to reply with his opinion the old fashioned “lets break up” is like the “the end” at the end of the story theres nothing left for him or you to say so you won’t get a reply… good luck <33

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also break ups and “heart to hearts” are personal so they are better to do over the phone or if possible face to face… looking at you or hearing your voice will be more of an emotional conversation rather then him (for example) playing his xbox and in between games texting you back

-jasmine

8 months ago with 0 notes

Anonymous: if your bf were to be acting different for awhile, things aint the same & we admit it & i havent talked to him in a wk (he just never replied back to me & i just wont be the one to message him again and feel like im clingy) is it clear we should just break up? i honestly dont know his real feelings for me anymore. i asked him, he said yea he still feels the same but it doesnt feel like that to me. it feels distant. his old self would nvr go more than a day w/o talking to me. what to do now? :(

you need to have what me and all my boyfriends would call it a “heart to heart” where we sat on the phone for however long it took and talked about our relationship plans and problems that may be surfacing and needed to be nipped in the butt.. i’ve been through this before actions speak louder then words if he’s telling you one thing and is acting a different type of way then its time for a talk, the key to every relationship is communication. you don’t want to be trapped in a relationship with no communication or even break up over a misunderstanding you know? talk and get back to us

-Jasmine

9 months ago with 0 notes